As I lie here all comfy and warm, I find myself thinking that even though my day was long and I’m quite tired, it was a really good day. I suppose it’s that satisfied tired that comes with knowing you’ve achieved some of your goals.
Several days ago I resumed my workouts at the gym. Sometimes it’s difficult to find the time, but I’ve decided there are some things I am going to have to *make* time for and that’s one of them.
Today as I was lying back on the exercise bench, I began thinking about what a great place a gym is. I need several of those pieces of equipment in my house :) For example, that exercise bench. Having him lie his beautiful, naked body* back on that bench, tying his wrists up over his head, and teasing him. Fingers traveling over his body, watching him tighten with excitement, hearing his breathing quicken, feeling his cock stiffen. My body responding to having him there, helpless and aching. I can think of a couple of different ways he can please me, can’t you? ;)
I think I’m going to have to persuade Bill he really doesn’t need that workshop in his garage. I need my *own* “workshop” ;) Who cares if it’s his house and I work for him? There are just some things a woman has to have!
Along with the lovely fantasies and exercise, I made a concerted effort to follow through on one of my recent resolves (no, not a New Year’s resolution – those are simply anticipated failures for most people). I am trying to share the nice thoughts I have about people as often as I can. I’ve always believed people are too quick to say the negative things and are stingy about the good things. It takes so little to text, for example, and say “hey – I think you’re sexy and I’m so glad you’re in my life”. How often are most people told how sexy they are? Not enough, I’m sure.
I also had a funny run-in with Richard today. I was in the kitchen fixing dinner, bending over to pull a pan out of the drawer at the bottom of the stove, when he came in. Now I know it’s more lady-like to squat but hey – it’s a lot more fun sometimes to bend – it gives one’s male acquaintances something to appreciate ;) He stopped for a moment and initially didn’t say anything. Finally he remarked – in quite the sassy tone, I will add – that he would be more inclined to “submit” to being a kitchen houseboy if he knew the view was so good. Richard is so not submissive so his remark was cheeky to say the least (smiles). Without thinking, I tossed over my shoulder that his sassy self could kiss my behind. He laughed and I thought that would be the end of it. As I stood at the sink, I heard a motion behind me, turned, and found him kneeling on the floor, his lips inches from my bottom. “Only ask for what you want, Missy.” He didn’t cross the line and totally misbehave, but – the cheek! Sass like that cannot go unpunished, can it? Let the plotting begin.. ;)
And finally in the “what’s going on in Lady Julia’s world” department, I’ve been doing some work on a new site called “Simple Dominance“. It’s primarily designed for women who are new to the idea of dominance and feel a bit overwhelmed by that “what do I do now” feeling that strike most of us hard in the beginning and occasionally rears its head even as we mature as Dommes. It’s my hope that I can create a place where dominant women feel a bond and gather naughty, exciting, evil cowgirl-like ideas. There’s often a lot of competitive feelings among women, but that seems especially true for dominant women. While I do a lot of writing with male readers in mind, it would be lovely to have a place where the ladies can share ideas. I may even begin some type of forum if I can figure out where to add something else a little time consuming to my life.
At the moment there’s not much there because I’m trying to write fresh articles and not simply copy and paste what I’ve done before. If you are interested in sharing some ideas with me (whether you are male or female), I’d be happy to post any that seem as if they fit with my theme for the site. (I’m trying to stay away from the extreme as I don’t want to really frighten someone taking their first steps). Not everything submitted will be posted, but I will, as always, appreciate any efforts :)
There’s more to tell, but all that will have to wait for another time.
Sweet dreams :)
~ Lady Julia
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* Many body shapes and sizes are beautiful to me. It’s the entire man that excites me.
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Poor Richard. What could possibly be in store for him? I think you should punish him by having him kiss your gorgeous tush several times. Strictly as penance naturally. I am sure he needs to be made to feel contrite. Be kind to him though. Limit it to a dozen times. No more. There’s only so much a man can do to show he is remorseful.
Putting sass aside I want to say the evil cowgirl site sounds really great. I like how you love to teach because it shows you are confident and know how sexy and intelligent you are. It also shows how kind you are.
I like your “exercise” regimen. You got the aerobic part covered. What about strength training and flexibility? :-)
I like your comment about saying something nice to somebody. I noticed at work that people only say things when you screw up. We aren’t as quick to praise good work. I have been trying to do more of the latter. Even if it is, “I appreciate the effort”.
I am very interested in future updates on the continuing Julia-Richard saga. It will be interesting to see who comes out on top. :-)
Mike, Mike, Mike – do you really have any doubts? :)
I appreciate you, by the way. It means a lot to me to receive feedback and I know you’re making a concerted effort to give it.
No doubts.
Hmm. You told Richard to kiss your bottom. And then when he was a good boy and tried to do so, you thought he was being cheeky? Okay, maybe in this case quite literally…
I mean, think about it. You wave your bottom at him – which undoubtedly causes several parts of his brain to shut down while overloading other parts. If anything is going to put a man into a state of obedience, that has to be it, yes?
It was the sassy tone, FTW ;) You can see in his comments that thinks he is impervious to my charms.
I will remind him if he continues with this cheekiness, he does have a trigger and he is very suggestible. I’d hate to see him standing on the front lawn wearing only his undies, holding a sign that says, “I will not sass Lady Julia” ;)