Her Majesty’s Plaything

February 1st, 2010

I used to think prodommes were “real” while my Queen was only “pretending” to top me. I have since come to realize that my thinking was ass backwards, self defeating and have changed my point of view. My change of attitude has reaped tremendous rewards and probably saved my marriage.

I found the key was asking myself a simple question; “what’s in it for her?” Instead of insisting that everything revolve around me I now make a sincere effort to give my Queen loving and devoted service to the best of my ability. It is difficult to say who benefits most from the arrangement we have now. I think perhaps she does which is exactly as it should be! After all I am the slave! :-)

~ Excerpt from “A Birthday Goes Unnoticed“, written by Her Majesty’s Plaything

I enjoyed reading HMP’s entire entry but the line I emphasized touched me the most. Couldn’t all relationships benefit from a balance like that? Not knowing who benefits most seems like a wonderfully exciting, relationship-fulfilling place to be.

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3 Responses to “Her Majesty’s Plaything”

  1. Mike says:

    That was a beautiful post.

    We shouldn’t keep score. Relationships are not sporting events.

    I also think his Queen notices and takes care of his needs too. Sounds like they have a great relationship.


  2. Dick says:

    I have read his website. His wife is a real Domme and they know how to do things. Glad you are reading there.

  3. Freemann says:

    Even without a D/s context, devoting oneself to the benefit of the one you love is more than just a good idea, it is the definition of love itself.