
It would seem that Guy Cimbalo, a writer for Playboy magazine, has a true fondness for women. He recently penned a list of the “Top 10 Conservative Women We Hate to Love”. Of course, by “Hate to Love”, Cimbalo was actually referring to the “Hate Fuck” (a phrase some are saying is a euphemism for rape). This is the most misogynistic piece of writing I’ve seen in a long time. What is wrong with people?? Why on earth would Playboy think it was acceptable to publish such a piece??
For years I have heard the debate over Playboy and other “men’s” magazines. They exploit women. No, they serve to celebrate men’s appreciation of women. As far as I am concerned, Playboy has clarified their position with this article.
I would link directly to the Playboy site, but they have pulled the article after what appears to be massive protest. Fortunately once you put something out on the internet, it will never truly disappear. You may see screen shots of the entire article here. You really must see the article to appreciate the vileness of it all.
Aside from the obvious, a couple of things really bothered me about this.
First is the apparent absence of mainstream media attention. If you do a search for “Playboy” on the sites for CNN, MSNBC, ABC, CBS, and FOX, you will find the following regarding this story:
- CNN – nothing
- MSNBC – nothing
- CBS – one mention, a editorial by Connie Erbe. Ms. Erbe makes it clear she is writing her editorial because “Teri Christoph, whom I have never met, asked me to stand up for conservative women who were maligned by an online article on Playboy magazine’s website.” Wow. No one has to ask me to stand up for women. She goes on to say, “I also want to note that at least one woman on the list is so venom-spewing, she unfortunately invites venom to be shot back at her: Michelle Malkin. Her posts and her ‘routine’ are so venomous and predictable, in fact, I stopped paying attention to her years ago.” Ok… if I interpret her response correctly, it would seem Ms. Erbe thinks Ms Malkin was asking for it??? Unbelievable.
- ABC – Posted a video response from Elisabeth Hasselbeck, co-host of the View. (Ms Hasselbeck was unfortunate enough to make this Top 10 list.) If ABC, who employs Ms. Hasselbeck, issued their own statement regarding this subject, I was unable to locate it.
- FOX – nothing
Why wasn’t there more outrage? I cannot believe FOX news wasn’t all over this. Isn’t such a vicious, misogynistic attack worthy of mention? Perhaps they don’t want to give Playboy the attention, however calling attention to negative issues seems to be a pastime for the media.
Can you imagine the media frenzy (and rightfully so) had these remarks been racist in nature?
I’m also disturbed that one liberal news site initially published only the headline from Playboy’s article and the names of the women who made this list. The article, written by Politico.com’s Anne Schroeder, was taken so seriously by this female writer that it was filed under the category “antics“. (Schroeder’s original article was also pulled. The result of protest? My guess would be yes.)
Imagine what you would have seen on Politico and other liberal news sites had this list contained the names of famous liberal women. I can’t say for sure that the response would be any different, but one does have to wonder. What difference does it make if the women listed are conservative or liberal? They’re human beings who do not deserve to be treated this way by anyone, much less a magazine that is the largest selling men’s magazine, selling about three million copies a month in the U.S.
I believe when magazines promote opinions like this, they help perpetuate misogyny. Hate quite often leads to violence. In the US there are 4.8 million intimate partner-related physical assaults and rapes every year.
No, Playboy is not responsible for all these things, but every pebble dropped in the pool of misogyny contributes to the problem. With a circulation of three million, they certainly have influence. While they withdrew the article, as far as I can determine there has been no apology, no clarification that Playboy does not support hatred or violence against women.
Isn’t it time we stood up to things like this and said, “No more!” I for one am composing my letter right now.