Wednesday, May 6th, 2009
I’ve been thinking… if I were going to experience an evening of pleasure, what sort of things would I want at my disposal? What would I want him to do for me and me to him? What would be your desire should you be given the option to choose what happens this evening with the lady or gentleman of your choice?
Perhaps your evening might involve hypnosis…, taking or being taken to a very deep place where the mind is so receptive, with the suggestion that the senses would be so heightened that the pleasure would be indescribable.
Would there be teasing with soft, silky scarves, reminiscent of the power of that delicious silk, especially red silk? Would someone be left begging and needing? Perhaps some silk bondage as a clear demonstration of how something so soft and sensuous could be oh so strong.
How luxurious and erotic for the dominant to be pampered with a few of their favorite things. Most delightful would be the soft moans of pleasure elicited as loving, soapy hands slid over a soft, sensuous body.
Perhaps something a bit more kinky would stir your desires… latex and handcuffs…
a bit of rope bondage…
Boot or foot worship… imagine the lovely feet hidden by these oh so sexy boots…
Or would caging or being caged hit push all the right buttons? Trapped and totally at the mercy of the one to whom power is surrendered…
Dominant or submissive, we all have our desires. Share with me about your dream evening and soon I’ll present you with one of mine :)
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Saturday, April 11th, 2009
If the lady of your dreams leaned against you, tempting you with the soft curves of her body while running her fingertips along your jawline, would she have at least a tiny bit of your attention? If her lips moved to caress your ear, her warm breath causing your body to tremble – even though perhaps you hate to admit that as a man you trembled – while her hand slid down and caressed your bottom.. would everything around you cease to exist for at least a few moments? If she murmured softly that she wanted you… would you deny her anything?
What if her one requirement was that you woo her?
It seems that the art of wooing is quite difficult for many men. Oh, not the smooth operator guys, but the average joe – especially the average joe who is a bit submissive.
I can understand that. Every now and then on the rarest of occasions, a few women can be the tiniest bit difficult to read. Then there’s the whole “I’m the submissive – she’s the Domme – she should tell me every single thing to do” rule. (Oh wait, that’s only a rule in fantasyland.)
What would you do?
I ask because, in spite of it all, there are some women – dare I say it – even some dominant women – who want to be romanced. There are some who want to be chased til they catch the men they want. And.. while I doubt the figures I often hear regarding the numbers of submissive men versus the number of dominant women, there are more of you than there are of us.
How would you capture her attention and then hold on to it?
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Thursday, April 9th, 2009
I’d like for you to move in a little closer. That’s right. Close enough for a nice, intimate conversation with me. Very good. I’m always pleased when I know I have your total attention ;)
It’s time for “Confessions”. It’s a simple little game, really. Consider the photo. Does it stir memories? If not, surely it stirs a fantasy or two. I’ll share mine and of course, you’ll share yours. Now… I’d be more pleased if you shared a few details, but I will settle for “did it”, “want to do it”, “don’t have the nerve to do it but dream about it”, “seriously I would never do that”,, etc.
Just so you understand that I’d receive the most pleasure from reading the details…
For me, an under the table moment like this falls in the category of “did it on more than one occasion”, “want to do it again”, and “it excites me right now to think about it”.
The best part of moments like this is watching his face, especially if he isn’t expecting it at all. I quite enjoy sitting in a restaurant, keeping a very straight face while talking about something totally unrelated, and sliding my foot onto his lap. It’s priceless to do this when the wait staff are present and taking his order. To watch his face redden, to see him squirm a bit.. and best of all to feel his body respond… yum.
It’s also lovely to be sitting at home watching a movie, having told him he is frozen and may not move, and finding myself caressing him in this manner. It’s a test really… how long can I concentrate on the movie when I feel him harden and hear his breathing quicken?
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Thursday, January 8th, 2009
“The decision to kiss for the first time is the most crucial in any love story. It changes the relationship of two people much more strongly than even the final surrender; because this kiss already has within it that surrender.” – Emil Ludwig
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Tuesday, January 6th, 2009
I have to go out for the evening so I’ve spent the last hour getting ready. As I sat putting on the “finishing touches” – lipstick, earrings, bracelet, necklace, and watch – I started wondering. Do men even notice when a woman wears jewelry? Of course he notices if it’s gaudy – who wouldn’t? But, does he notice if I have something subtle dangling just above my cleavage? Does he notice the glitter adorning my ears?
Sometimes I think maybe women wear jewelry not for men, but for themselves and/or to impress other women. I’m pretty subtle in my tastes so I think I wear it for me, but who knows what’s buried in our subconscious mind? Ok, I admit I wear the necklace for me and for him – after all, I know he’s going to be looking in that direction ;) I do sometimes wonder if his eyes even wander high enough to see it, though.
What about you? If you’re a man, do you ever notice and appreciate a lady’s jewels? Is that sort of adornment ever sexy to you? Ladies, do you enjoy wearing jewelry and if so, why? Does your fella ever notice things like that?
(I know, I know, a very shallow post, but I am trying to get back in the swing of things – indulge me).
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Friday, October 31st, 2008
“But seduction isn’t making someone do what they don’t want to do. Seduction is enticing someone into doing what they secretly want to do already.” – Waiter Rant
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