Archive for July, 2009

Fabulous Face Friday and a Bit of Randomness for July 31st

Friday, July 31st, 2009

3600454078_5bed6eca06_o


Busy busy day today as I am trying to get ready to go out of town tomorrow (just for the day). I will catch up with everyone Sunday :)  Hope your weekend is a great one.

Randomness for July 30th

Thursday, July 30th, 2009

b19a5019695c

I haven’t been able to be online much the past couple of days and may not be for the next few days. I’ve peeked at my inbox and there are a lot of interesting emails there, including some new stories for Femdom Fantasies. I’ll post those and reply to my emails as soon as possible.

~ ~

Tomorrow is National Orgasm Day in the UK. Since I have so many readers from the UK I say we all join them in their celebration ;)

~ ~

A question from a reader:

“Why don’t you post more content on your blog and fewer pictures? If I want to look at porn I can do it somewhere else.”

I wouldn’t bother to answer this but the content aspect of the question has been asked of me a number of times.

First, I post porn here? We certainly have different definitions if you really believe that is true.

Second, why don’t I post more content? Hmm, well primarily because I have a life. I’m a very busy person who has a chronic illness, so some days it’s all I can do to finish the things I *have* to finish. Additionally I have several different blogs divided by topics. I typically post at least one “content” entry a day, they’re just not all in this spot.

~ ~

Another reader asks,

If you could pick one thing that turns you on the most, what would it be?

Being treated as if he cares, having him do little things for me, tenderness.  (Sorry, that’s not one thing, but it’s all tied in together).  I know that isn’t what you probably expected, but I think a lot of women have similar feelings.

~ ~

This week I’ve noticed a few more bloggers who have said farewell to the blogosphere. A couple were not leaving in frustration – it’s just that after several years of blogging, what else is there to say?

I feel that way sometimes. Often I think, “I know I’ve talked about this a few times already over the years.” In fact, I know I’ve talked about this very topic at least one other time :) I consider stopping, or at least, stopping for awhile. I don’t want to be bored and I don’t want my readers to be bored.

Part of my “what’s new that I can talk about” problem is the hesitancy to post about the more intimate things in my life. I can talk about fun and sexy things or controversial things, but there’s something truly difficult about sharing the private things because, well, they’re private. Some people seem to have no qualms about posting anything at all – which is great – but I choose not to because for me it sort of takes away from the specialness of it all. Plus, I respect the privacy of others.

So, I don’t know. Maybe I should become a sporadic blogger. Maybe I should just stop altogether. Maybe I’ll post four blog posts tomorrow because by then this mood will have passed. It’s still mostly fun at the moment so I suppose I’ll continue on. Who knows.

I Always Knew You Were a 10! ;)

Tuesday, July 28th, 2009

7RGgy4cxiqf4vdswq6QQWenYo1_500

The folks at Apple have outdone themselves with their latest IPhone application, the Passion.  No longer will you have to wonder how well you are doing in bed – just strap on the IPhone and let the phones motion sensors and microphone work together to rate your performance.

According to US Post Today:

Users simply start the programme, strap the phone to their arm or belt, and press ’stop’ when lovemaking is over.

The programme then gives a rating from ‘bad’ to ‘perfect’ on three criteria – duration, activity, and orgasm.

Duration is monitored by the phone’s timer, activity through the ‘accelerometer’ motion sensor, and orgasm via the microphone.

All the readings are combined to created a score out of 10.

Users can then go online to upload the score and compare themselves against others who have done the same.

That eliminates the need for all that pesky communication, now doesn’t it?

A Clarification

Monday, July 27th, 2009

sae23s

In reading the responses to yesterday’s post regarding withholding domination, I realized I did not clearly phrase my question. The writer was not addressing withholding of domination from time to time, but was instead referring to those situations in which a vanilla woman refused to assume a dominant role in her relationship.

My apologies for the confusion.

Withholding Domination

Sunday, July 26th, 2009

dra34-del

A few days ago I read an article in which a dominant woman contended that withholding domination from a man is just as bad as withholding sex.  She added that women have an obligation to understand the needs of their men.

Initially I went on to share my thoughts regarding this philosophy, but I realized that to varying degrees, I’ve already addressed this.  Rather than repeating myself, I thought I would offer the floor to you. Do you agree or disagree, and why?

Sensual Saturday for July 25th

Saturday, July 25th, 2009

7rggy4cxionwqwfggwlkb8cto1_500

I’ve added a couple of new stories to Femdom Fantasies and a hypnosis-related post on The Silken Web.   I also initiated an informal survey on The Silken Tease that has yielded a stunning number of responses (4).   Perhaps if you have an interest in tease & denial, you’ll pop over there and respond to my little survey :)  There may be a fun reason I’m asking ;)

Fabulous Face Friday for July 24th

Friday, July 24th, 2009

3485132403_624d5a27a0_o

RSS Feeds For My Sites and For Site Comments

Friday, July 24th, 2009

42909

I’ve completed a list of feed info for some of my sites and their comment sections.   It was such an exhausting job that I’ve been forced to lie back while wearing this tulle and sequined outfit. Don’t all women wear something like this during an arduous day of writing? ;)

My Blog:
http://ladyjulia.net/myblog/feed/
http://ladyjulia.net/myblog/comments/feed/

The Silken Web:
http://hypnodomme-ladyjulia.com/feed/
http://hypnodomme-ladyjulia.com/comments/feed/

The Silken Tease:
http://tease-and-denial.net/feed/
http://tease-and-denial.net/comments/feed/

Femdom Fantasies:
http://femdomfantasies.net/feed/
http://femdomfantasies.net/comments/feed/

I’m sure that some of the more techie among you can offer RSS reader advice to anyone who is interested.  I have found Google’s Reader quite simple to use.

Thanks T for the help :)

Taking Him

Thursday, July 23rd, 2009

002qg8wh

I really like the pose in this photo. If the models were older and the young lady was a bit less thin, it would be among my favorites. It’s so sexy to see that she is assuming physical control and seems to be preparing to take him.

While there are times when I love soft, sensual lovemaking, there is nothing quite as exciting as taking what I want, where I want, and how I want.

(Thank you John for the photo :)

Yes Ma’am

Thursday, July 23rd, 2009

yesmaam

Don’t you love this?  I definitely do!  I think this should be every submissive man’s uniform ;)

Nothing else.

Just the apron.

Yum ;)

A friend designed several items that might push one or two of your buttons, especially those of you who have listened to my mp3s (the kite mousepad is another I really like because it can be sitting out for everyone to see without them knowing the secrets the kite holds).

mousepad

He has several interesting items – tshirts, magnets, ties (*love* the ties), and more. If you think you might get a rush out of wearing something like this, then hop on over there and check them out. It all looks pretty exciting to me! :)