Lady Julia’s Entranced Realm

Hi Everyone :)

Today’s been a busy but very pleasant day. I’ve been listening to Christmas music while preparing food for tomorrow’s Thanksgiving feast. Christmas music is good for the soul, isn’t it? :) We’ll have 18 people for lunch tomorrow (including all my nieces and nephews – yay!), so I’m looking forward to a really nice time.

In case I don’t get to post for a few days, I wanted to wish you all a joyous holiday and also.. I wanted to tell you that there are so many of you I am thankful to have in my life. Your fondness and patience is truly amazing.

And if you’re wondering why I chose the above photo for my Thanksgiving post, I suspect you don’t know me very well at all ;) Perhaps you’ll come back and get to know me a little better.

Soft kisses,
Lady Julia

Since I’ve been pretty quiet for the past few months, I’ve decided it’s time to stir things up a bit. Do the words “sexy” and “free” capture your attention any at all? (No, not that kind of sexy and free – behave now ;)

I thought I would conduct a drawing for this super sexy “Yes Ma’am” apron. (Yum, have I ever mentioned how much I love a man in an apron and nothing else?) Participation is simple – just leave a comment on this entry and you’re registered. That’s it :) I’ll put all the names on slips of paper and hold a drawing in a couple of weeks (I’ll let you know know before I close it).

Oh.. and if you want, I’ll launder it, wear it once and perhaps spray a tiny bit of my perfume on it before I send it to you ;)

(The creator of the “Yes Ma’am” apron (above), has also designed the Red Kite tie, the “Good Boy” mousepad, and several more items intriguing to someone like me who enjoys the words and images of sensual dominance. Nicely done G ;) I’m loving all of these :)

I’m planning to interview a few people regarding the Femdom lifestyle in general, orgasm control and denial, and erotic / D/s hypnosis. I’m not looking for “experts”, rather people who are willing to share what these things mean to them, how they effect their lives, etc. If you have experience in any of these areas or have a desire to, I’d like to pick your brain a bit via email. Please write to express your interest and provide a brief description of what you would be willing to discuss. For those of you who are concerned, I will keep your identity private if you so desire.

Please don’t be offended if I do not decide to interview you. If I have a number of offers, I will have to narrow my choices to a few.

It seems some of my friends are having difficulty finding my twitter account. Try this link and see if that doesn’t help. (If I don’t know you, I may not add you. I mean no offense by this :) If I deny your request, try letting me know more about you by commenting on my blog, directing me to yours, etc :)

Hope your day is great. I’m about to jump in the shower and then head to the Dr. Will write more later :)

I’ve decided to start using Twitter to communicate on days I don’t have time for a blog entry or for things that don’t really fit here. It’s pretty much going to be a brief glimpse at all my interests (including politics), not just Femdom things If you are a friend and you tweet, you may follow me. My tweets are marked private so not just everyone can see them. My twitter ID is ladyjulia47

(On an unrelated note: It could be that I’m repeating photos I’ve used before – oops ;) I haven’t blogged in so long I can’t remember which ones I have used and which ones I’ve simply seen somewhere.)

It’s been several months now since I’ve posted with any regularity. It’s been almost that long since I’ve responded to email and even longer since I’ve read any of my friends’ blogs.

I’ve been in the desert.

I don’t like the desert. Not at all.

So, I’m making the time to write here. When I can, I’ll email. I need to do something because writing is and always has been one of the ways I sort out my feelings.

Why is it when we are stressed to the max we ignore so many of the things that feel good and de-stress us? I tell myself I don’t have the time, but the truth is if I relaxed some, I would most likely would have more time in my day – I’d be less disorganized and probably less tired.

I especially wonder why the sex drive diminishes for so many when we’re stressed, especially when we *know* how much happier and relaxed we are when there is an abundance of intimacy and physical contact. I’m sure it’s some bio-chemical thing, but why don’t we strive a bit harder to fight it? When I was younger I thought a diminished sex drive was impossible, but at 47, it happens from time to time. Oh I still have the desire ;) Just not as much as I once did. I believe I need a bit of subtle coaxing ;) Perhaps that doesn’t sound like something a submissive should do, but hey – if I need it then he’s serving me in precisely the right way.

Hmm – I can easily imagine him naked in my kitchen, washing the dishes and moving his behind in time with some sexy music. That’s coaxing, but he’s not putting any pressure on me. He’s just… available. And enticing… and so sexy… and wait – did I say my sex drive was a wee bit diminished?