Comments on: Hello There, Big Boy

By: Duncan

Duncan — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 14:11:44 +0000

I envy him.

You write so well Lady Julia. It is exciting to read about a man who knows nothing about dominance,submission or hypnosis who is being lured into that world. I know you want to be just friends with him but I think that doesn’t prevent you from making sure he has a quality, “hands on” education from you about these things.

By: Free Thinking Writer

Free Thinking Writer — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 06:32:45 +0000

I disagree with both Dick and Todd. If the ground rules and expectations are clear, then they can be taken at face value.

Flirting, even with the expectation of nothing more than the flirting, is fun.

We’re not in high school, after all. We should be able to actually control our hormones at least a little bit.

By: Arafin

Arafin — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 04:53:23 +0000

Todd wrote:

> …. men don’t do “friendly flirting”.

Please, don’t speak for me.

Thank you.

Arafin

By: Lady Julia

Lady Julia — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 01:34:27 +0000

Willie, thank you. You are such a lovely person.

By: Todd

Todd — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 00:46:25 +0000

I don’t think women are always aware that men don’t do “friendly flirting”. You either want us or you don’t. If you want us you flirt. If you don’t, you don’t. It’s that simple.

By: Dick

Dick — Wed, 12 Nov 2008 21:57:49 +0000

Since then I’ve started calling him “Big Boy”. For some difficult-to-comprehend reason he seems to enjoy that ;)

This is a perfect example of the sexual come-ons that women do yet you cannot see why men say that they can’t be friends with women. He tells you he can because he’s hoping you will change your mind.

By: willie owen

willie owen — Wed, 12 Nov 2008 20:56:27 +0000

Lady Julia,
There is no doubt at all existing. You are a true friend.

Like the goddess Indra, you furnish your friends with a thousand eyes.
You help your friends see in other dimensions.
You share life within the upside down and inside out.
You are never alone, nor are your friends, nor will you ever be alone.
Yours is a friendship for Life, skin to skin close with those you truly Love.
Your friendship with your friends is akin to something in the near side of loving, including.

Your friends are blessed.
gratias.
willie