It’s been a really busy day today. Doctor’s office visit (boo, I’m sick again), shopping, going to the bank, and so on. In spite of all that, I’ve been in that mood. You know the mood – the one that means I’m going to do something fun and sexy to someone.
Text messaging. That was it. Fun, sexy, and quick so I could fit it in between the doctor’s exam and shopping :)
“Today every time you go to the restroom, tease yourself for a minute or so. While you’re doing it, think about how lovely it feels to be controlled. You may not release today.”
Short, simple, and every time I thought about it I knew it would turn me on.
So – I sent out the message.
The reply?
“Um… ok… but I think you have the wrong number.”
I was embarrassed (although admittedly only a little) and turned on at the same time.
“I’m so sorry. I apparently added an extra number and got you by mistake. I meant that text for a friend.”
“Lucky bastard.”
Ok, I admit I should have stopped there, but the evil cowgirl in me took over.
“Well, you could always follow the instructions… “
“Yeah? Then what?”
“Then you’d be a lucky fella too?”
“That’s it?”
“That’s it.”
“I’ll take it! Thank you for making my day. :-)”
Ok.. you tell me. Is it more likely that out of all the wrong numbers in the world I would just happen to text a guy who is submissive or would something like that be appealing to most men because it has a sexual flavor to it?
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::laughs::
You go, Evil Cowgrrl!
No, it’s not a sub thing, it’s just exciting to see a woman take such an active sexual role. I’d have responded the same way.
Lucky bastard, indeed!
You are the most charming woman I have ever seen. I hope it doesn’t offend you but I think it’s adorable that you would write out what he said “lucky bastard” but censored your reply to him to something more ladylike. You manage to say and do the sexiest things without seeming crass.
To answer your question I think you are every man’s dream. Any man who wasn’t a prude would have responded well to that message. Even if he declined for some reason he would respond within himself.
His mind must be going wild by now, wondering what this is all about.
I would say his reaction would be that of most men. The possibility of becoming involved in something sexual, no matter how remote, will get the attention of most men… whether most would admit it is another story.
haha that’s funny… and great ;)
Maybe it was just that he’s a playful fella. I am playful and that’s how my Boy Toy managed to drag me into the kinky stuff…
I’m sure you made his day. You helped mine;-).
I think most men would enjoy receiving a wrong number from a woman that included something sexual.
However, not many years ago, I wouldn’t have had a very good understanding of what your message meant. Tease and Denial, Orgasm Control, etc. just were not part of my knowledge base; hence, I think you were lucky also – part of your karma.
Will
Will, you know you’re right. In looking back at what I texted, I’m not sure just anyone would have known what I meant. Makes me want to text him and ask him… Guess I better leave well enough alone, though.
Hmm.. pondering..
Thanks everyone for the lovely comments.
I’d be careful to avoid labels. It’s easy to use words like “submissive” and “dominant”, but most people are far more complex than these simple labels allow. It’s quite possible for a man to enjoy a take charge woman without actually being submissive about it. If nothing else, it’s perhaps a change of pace. Variety, spice of life, all that sort of thing.
Sexy is 90% attitude. And a main portion of the attitude is simply taking an active role. Women expect the guy to show interest in physical intimacy, but guys don’t necessarily expect the same. A woman willing to tease her guy a little is automatically sexy, at least a little.
Heh. You tell her Free Thinking Writer! As you say she should know people are far more complex than these simple labels allow.
You’re correct, of course, FTW. I was just having a bit of fun with thinking about the possibilities :)
Keep having fun…!! I wonder what the response might have been if a woman had received that text? Hopefully spark a little play idea with her partner…
How delightful that you allowed serendipity into an everyday ‘oops’ ! By not taking yourself too seriously that day, you offered a playful lesson to those who do, and a grin to those who don’t. Nicely done, m’Lady!