A friend asks,

I notice there is no link to the Silken Web on this page. I had forgotten about that site. I was wondering how the others knew about your other experience. Now I know. I usually start on your main page and use the links to go to your other pages. The Silken Web link would be helpful. I know. I know. I need to get an RSS reader going. On my list.

Actually, it was there, I just didn’t have it listed as The Silken Web. Why you couldn’t see it when I didn’t have it named correctly, I’ll never know ;) Thanks for the help.

He goes on to ask:

Are we ever a burden to you? In my mind, when you take control of something or someone you also are taking some responsibility. Do you see it that way? If so is that burdensome at times? So many people must write to you. I feel that maybe we take advantage of you at times. I realize these are personal questions. I will not be offended in any way if you do not answer.

Yes, taking control of something or someone is a responsibility that I take seriously. I wouldn’t say it is burdensome, rather it tends to make me really cautious. I try to be very careful how I phrase things and to remind people that their first responsibility is always to their every-day-life and their family. I think some people find repeats of that information a bit of a buzz kill, but such is life. I want to make sure that not only do I respect my responsibility to interact in a reasonable and safe manner, but that others remember their part in playing safely.

Some people try to take advantage, yes. It always amazes me how some of the most selfish people I’ve ever known profess to be submissives. I choose not to spend time interacting with people like that unless it is wholly unavoidable. I’m fortunate to have several really good friends both here and in my every day life.

The only stress I feel from my online activities is the stress I put on myself :) There simply aren’t enough hours to devote to it, especially as I have many things in my every day life that require my time. I have finally reached a point where I think my friends understand if I don’t respond quickly and those I don’t know will simply have to accept that as the case.

Thank you for the questions, my friend. If you or anyone else would like to pose questions, you may do so anonymously here.

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