When my teasing excites you so much that you are taken to your knees, begging – cock hard and your entire being wanting – it’s sometimes difficult to even think because my arousal is so strong. All I can do is feel.. feel the quickening of my breath, the hardness of my nipples, and the wetness between my thighs.
I love controlling your body and your mind in every way. Even now as I think about it, I pause to touch so that my body can feel the pleasure that already crowds my mind.
Mmm.
Still, I need for you to know that your surrender isn’t all about sex. It’s not just about controlling your cock or being pleasured by you. That’s a big part of it, yes, but I need other things from you as well.
I need to be wooed and I need to be served (and I’m not referring to cleaning the house or doing the laundry). Sometimes I will tell you what I want and sometimes – well sometimes you’re just going to have to use that brilliant mind of yours to think of ways to please me :) Learn about me and the things that interest me. Do things for me that are related to what I like even if they do absolutely nothing for you (after all, I’m sure you’ll feel pleasure from pleasing me, won’t you?). If you aren’t sure if something will please me, ask. I’ll be certain to let you know how appreciative I am of your initiative ;)
(This post is a continuation of my “if I were a vanilla woman and my partner wanted me to dominate him and/or be the boss” series.)
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Why is everything all about you? How are you any less selfish than what you say men are?
I know men think so but to a woman everything is not about sex. Even a woman that loves sex a lot wants more. There are other ways to show love and desire besides sex and a woman wants to be shown love.
Thank you for writing this series! I heard about it on another blog and was thrilled. I am printing these posts to show to my husband.
Of course its not about sex its about scales lol
This is a great series. I think you do yourself a disservice by saying this is just about femdom relationships. This applies to any relationship, male-female, same sex, vanilla, business etc. Any one way relationship will fail eventually.
I think relationships are like teeter-totters. They should balance. Each side of the fulcrum does not have to be of equal length or weight, but it needs to balance or it will not work properly.
Very thought provoking. Keep them coming. Please.
Mike
Thank you, Dear Lady.
It’s not all about sex, sex is all about it. “It” is the goal of a perfect balance between two people, whether in a power exchange relationship or a vanilla one. Sex is only a means to an end, a part of the journey but not the destination. “It”, in order to flourish, is about selfless love, love of oneself, and brilliant courageous awareness all coming together in one place at one time. I love that you push the envelope of understanding of what it means to empathize with another person on this level.
Arafin