Sometimes I make mistakes. I am not always firm enough, sometimes I don’t communicate as well as I would like, every now and then I completely fail at understanding where you are coming from.
I’m sorry for the times when that happens.
It took me awhile to realize that it was ok for me not be perfect and that apologizing would not diminish my control over you. I know that is the fantasy for some men – the perfect Domme – but I think most realize that no one is infallible, no one can be “on” all the time. It also took me awhile to realize that the person hardest on me, the person with the highest expectations of me – was me.
I want you to know it’s ok to tell me if I am a bit off the mark (smiles – or even way off the mark). I know you’ll do it with careful consideration of my feelings and our relationship – just as I would do for you. I need for you to tell me I’m doing ok – just as I do for you. We each need validation that we are being successful in our roles and that each of us are having fun.
And we are having fun, aren’t we my good boy? ;)
(This post is a continuation of my “if I were a vanilla woman and my partner wanted me to dominate him and/or be the boss” series.)
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I dont usually comment on “blogs” however……….
That picture is just sooooo….o beautiful, I had to say ….thankyou
Barney
I think you have run this series into the ground. You aren’t a vanilla woman so how could you know what you would do?
Finally a heckler has declared you aren’t a vanilla woman. Now all those rumors Dick started to the contrary can be put to rest.
Listen up. If you don’t like what you read here, leave. Lady Julia is not here to provide you with anything. She writes whatever she wants to write about.
For what it is worth she is practical and intelligent and a lot of the people who are making their wives’ lives miserable with their unreasonable, selfish demands would be wise to listen to her.