Comments on: Femdom, Male Slaves, and Relationships http://ladyjulia.net/myblog/femdom/3443-femdom-male-slaves-and-relationships/ Random Thoughts of a Lifestyle HypnoDomme Sat, 04 Dec 2010 05:00:33 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: David http://ladyjulia.net/myblog/femdom/3443-femdom-male-slaves-and-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-2482 David Wed, 10 Feb 2010 03:56:31 +0000 http://ladyjulia.net/myblog/?p=3443#comment-2482 I have read comments by men stating they believe the Domme has it easy, that all she has to do is sit back and "be worshipped". Their version of "being worshpped" looks like a lot of work to me. I have read comments by men stating they believe the Domme has it easy, that all she has to do is sit back and “be worshipped”. Their version of “being worshpped” looks like a lot of work to me.

]]> By: rumiboy http://ladyjulia.net/myblog/femdom/3443-femdom-male-slaves-and-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-2472 rumiboy Tue, 09 Feb 2010 20:08:59 +0000 http://ladyjulia.net/myblog/?p=3443#comment-2472 @Lady Julia: "I didn’t even think about being the person who called the shots – it’s just pretty much how it was." Someone once told me that I had read one book too many. Since I stumbled in to the Enchanted Realm, I have been reading everything I can get my eyes on concerning female-led relationships, only to get smacked in the head by the realization that it all pretty much described my life, except for the kinky stuff. I worry sometimes lately that acknowledging my submissiveness might somehow "break the spell" - I pray that never happens, and will stop thinking about all this immediately and just enjoy this beautiful life. @Lady Julia: “I didn’t even think about being the person who called the shots – it’s just pretty much how it was.”

Someone once told me that I had read one book too many. Since I stumbled in to the Enchanted Realm, I have been reading everything I can get my eyes on concerning female-led relationships, only to get smacked in the head by the realization that it all pretty much described my life, except for the kinky stuff. I worry sometimes lately that acknowledging my submissiveness might somehow “break the spell” – I pray that never happens, and will stop thinking about all this immediately and just enjoy this beautiful life.

]]> By: Freemann http://ladyjulia.net/myblog/femdom/3443-femdom-male-slaves-and-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-2464 Freemann Mon, 08 Feb 2010 14:39:01 +0000 http://ladyjulia.net/myblog/?p=3443#comment-2464 Lady Julia, Back about 8 years ago, when I was serving a friend, Knight to her Lady, she told me that a 24/7 D/s relationship was only a fantasy. In real life, every relationship is a give and take proposition, with the amount of give being influenced not only by the personalities of the individuals, but by the circumstances as well. I recall one time when I was admonishing her about taking her medication,she remarked that it was comforting to know that she had a 'sub' who would come out and take charge if she needed it. Freemann Lady Julia,

Back about 8 years ago, when I was serving a friend, Knight to her Lady, she told me that a 24/7 D/s relationship was only a fantasy. In real life, every relationship is a give and take proposition, with the amount of give being influenced not only by the personalities of the individuals, but by the circumstances as well. I recall one time when I was admonishing her about taking her medication,she remarked that it was comforting to know that she had a ’sub’ who would come out and take charge if she needed it.

Freemann

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