Comments on: Service Only Submission http://ladyjulia.net/myblog/femdom/981-service-only-submission/ Random Thoughts of a Lifestyle HypnoDomme Sat, 04 Dec 2010 05:00:33 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: axe http://ladyjulia.net/myblog/femdom/981-service-only-submission/comment-page-1/#comment-1466 axe Thu, 04 Jun 2009 03:11:02 +0000 http://ladyjulia.net/myblog/?p=981#comment-1466 I've provided service for someone for over two years now and it's a service-only relationship. No sex of any kind. Actually it's the longest kind of relationship I've had in BDSM. At first it was just a way for me to get my desire to serve met. Almost as though I was saying to myself "well, it's better than nothing". I was settling. I became friends with the person I provide service to and the more I learned the more I enjoyed it. Now, would I enjoy it if I found someone to provide service to who wanted to fuck me and beat the hell out of me afterwards? Sure! But that doesn't mean I don't enjoy service for service-sake. In fact, I've never provided service for someone and expected (or received ) play as a reward. I hear of other experience where a submissive is sexualized or objectified while performing service (forced to be nude for example). I'll admit it's something I've wondered about since the way I provide service now is in no-way sexual. I would worry that my quality of cleaning would go down if it was more sexual though. The funny part is how hard it is to find someone to provide service to in the first place. I’ve provided service for someone for over two years now and it’s a service-only relationship. No sex of any kind. Actually it’s the longest kind of relationship I’ve had in BDSM.

At first it was just a way for me to get my desire to serve met. Almost as though I was saying to myself “well, it’s better than nothing”. I was settling. I became friends with the person I provide service to and the more I learned the more I enjoyed it. Now, would I enjoy it if I found someone to provide service to who wanted to fuck me and beat the hell out of me afterwards? Sure! But that doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy service for service-sake.
In fact, I’ve never provided service for someone and expected (or received ) play as a reward.

I hear of other experience where a submissive is sexualized or objectified while performing service (forced to be nude for example). I’ll admit it’s something I’ve wondered about since the way I provide service now is in no-way sexual. I would worry that my quality of cleaning would go down if it was more sexual though.

The funny part is how hard it is to find someone to provide service to in the first place.

]]> By: Dick http://ladyjulia.net/myblog/femdom/981-service-only-submission/comment-page-1/#comment-1004 Dick Tue, 28 Apr 2009 20:59:43 +0000 http://ladyjulia.net/myblog/?p=981#comment-1004 The only way to keep a submissive man in his place is to control his sexuality. To expect service only with no sexual aspect is unrealistic. The only way to keep a submissive man in his place is to control his sexuality. To expect service only with no sexual aspect is unrealistic.

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