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A power exchange relationship, be it temporary or long term, may not be for everyone, especially if it involves hypnosis, but for those who are lucky enough to enjoy all the aforementioned satisfaction of a Hypno D/s relationship there are some fringe benefits that few others come to so easily.
Learning to trust deeply, completely, and without the bothersome tribulations of constant inspection and doubt is a thing long term vanilla couples sometimes achieve, yet short term vanilla unions rarely make it to this realm. A Hypno D/s connection, even a part time or short term one, can, and should, contain such trust. Because good Hypno D/s connections are carefully thought out and engineered in order to promote safety and sanity, and because the sexual pleasure these types of connections often allow both parties to realize, there is an underlying deep background satisfaction which permeates both people. This, along with the trust spoken of above, can resonate through mundane necessities of life, making them not only less mundane but sometimes downright exhilarating. Imagine a sub washing the Domme’s kitchen floor and getting off on that otherwise most ordinary of tasks while the Domme derives deep joy from seeing such devotion. The possibilities are endless.
It is no secret that many vanilla men show less endurance in bed than women would wish for. This is a combination of biology and cultural expectations, both of which can be addressed quite successfully with hypnosis. With Femdom hypnosis an even greater success can be realized in the form of tease and denial. Men like to be sexually teased, to strive for a release that is just out of reach, while women seem to like doing the teasing. The incorporation of Femdom hypnosis into tease and denial can yield intense pleasure for both parties involved, so much so, in fact, that it becomes a trusted and relied upon way of life which moves such a relationship forward not only in time but in depth. To attempt this type of hypnotic tease and denial without informed consent would be to invite danger and sorrow into one’s life. To attempt it with informed consent would be to invite ever expanding joy.
Then there is the joy of service without any expectation of sexual pleasure at all. What relationship is about sex all the time? Certainly not anything intended to last beyond a few hours. There lies within every serious connection between two people a level of satisfaction that comes from companionship alone, of just having someone to be with, to look out for and be looked out for by. In a Femdom hypnosis setting there can also be a much more intense joy of pure servitude than vanilla couples usually realize, again the intensity enhanced with hypnosis and built upon informed consent. To know that one serves, or is served, with complete trust established by previously open and honest inspection of self and one’s partner, is to know a kind of stability which transcends the more fleeting state of trust created by the emotions of sexual activity.
The rewards of informed consent are directly proportional to the uniformity with which mutual faith in one another is established, both in the beginning of a Femdom hypnosis relationship and all along the way.
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Nice series of articles.