Lady Julia, Will You Dominate Me?

I receive requests almost daily from men seeking someone to dominate them. Some of them are quite obviously looking for something on the line of McDommalds – “I’ll take a hot Domme dressed in latex and umm… let’s see… I’ll take a side order of flogging with that, and can you make it to go?” Still others are very sincere and seem like very kind, interesting people.

I am very flattered when someone takes the time to get to know me via my writing and then asks me to consider dominating them. I am touched by their situations as I know it must feel so hopeless to want something so badly only to realize how very difficult it is to obtain.

While I would love to help some of the people that write, I honestly cannot. For a variety of reasons I am not looking for anyone to dominate. Please do not write and ask as telling you no will make me sad and will probably not be very pleasant for you to hear.

To those who request that I dominate them without knowing a single thing about me, it is important to note that I am not a professional Domme nor do I have an interest in dominating just anyone for the sake of dominating.

I do enjoy mentoring people when my time permits, so from time to time I will conduct group “Experiences” in TCOD to allow group members the opportunity to experience a small taste of submission. I’ve created several hypnosis MP3s for the same reason. These are designed as brief glimpses into the D/s lifestyle and are not intended to be anything more than that.