From a Reader: What Worked For Him

July 1st, 2009

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From a reader (left via the Ask Lady Julia survey):

Not so much a question, as I don’t know where to leave suggestions, or comments:

I had been leaving subtle hints around the house that i wanted to enter into a FemDom relationship, but it wasn’t until i put a little “twist” on a suggestion until she got if fully. I set up a new email address for her, and wrote a letter AS HER, addressed to me. In the letter, i put that she was a beautiful, sexy, goddess, that deserved to be treated as such. That, although she loved me very much, my physical appearance wasn’t good enough to be with someone like her. That she was going to take control, and have me go to the gym and work out daily. If she agreed to the letter she would send it to me, if not…she wouldn’t, and we would discuss later.. She LOVED it!

Since then, she has had me go to the gym everyday, and told me exactly what she wants me to do….i have lost 10 lbs, and she is taking more and more control in our relationship…WE ARE BOTH SO HAPPY…. this might be just one way to “get past the nervousness and let her know”…. respectfully submitted, m

Thank you, m, for sharing your experience. It’s always good to hear success stories :) Congrats also on the weight loss!

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3 Responses to “From a Reader: What Worked For Him”

  1. That is fantastic! Congratulations.

  2. jmred says:

    Very cool. Also, where did you get that picture? One in awhile a person sees something that hits just right and pushes submissive buttons. This so does it for me.

  3. billy says:

    That is wonderful great idea m, you did great and it is nice to know your wife is enjoying Herself.

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