Just a few bits and pieces for now.
Thus far I’ve only had one story submitted in February for posting on Femdom Fantasies. If you have something to submit (smiles – deliberate choice of words) then please contact me.
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A reader asks:
What kind of music do you find the most likely to get you in the mood?
Anything sung by a man whose voice is sexy. I have a thing for voices, so much so that I would say it’s the physical quality that most attracts me to a person. Leonard Cohen, Marvin Gay, Barry White – all yummy. Accents – also delish, although I can’t say I notice them much when someone is singing.
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Another reader wonders:
Why don’t you charge for your MP3s or access to your sites? Nothing of quality is free.
Nothing of quality is free? Seriously? I’m never reading any Shakespeare again! No, no – it’s free. It must be worthless. The same for anything composed by Beethoven and performed by a symphony. (Not all symphonies charge for admission.)
I don’t charge because I don’t want to charge. If I charge, then people might have an actual right to gripe and I like being able to say sorry – it’s free. No gripey if it’s free. I write my blogs and create MP3s because it is FUN for me to do so. It’s an outlet for my creativity and I want nothing to pressure me or steal my fun when it comes to these things. My life is very stressful at times so a pleasurable and creative hobby is very important to me.
I also don’t accept money for what I do because in my mind that seems to take the control from me and give it to whomever is paying. I like being in control, most especially of what *I* do. I’m not saying that is the case for others – just for me.
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Finally, another reader questions:
What are the benefits of being financially controlled by a female online who is genuinely interested in helping me to be financially submissive?
You really didn’t leave me enough information to respond. *How* is she controlling you financially? Are you giving her money to do this or is she an online friend who is merely setting limits with you? Is the goal to make you financially responsible? If you’re giving her money, is it your money to give or is it money that is taken away from your family? If you wish, you may clarify here.
Thanks to each of you. If you would like to pose a question, you may do so anonymously here.
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Is it true that jazz is the closet music genre to the act of making love? The purists in the D/s community may like Highway to Hell by ACDC during a scene but I find Andrea Bocelli is romantic while massaging one’s sweatheart.
Any news about Lady Julia’s recording an album of her favourate songs? (You have a friend in Memphis who offered to do some studio recording?) Lady Julia the Album! Now that is something worth paying for (smiles).
Is it true that jazz is the closet music genre to the act of making love?
I’ve no idea but it’s a good theory :)
Noooo recordings of me singing. Trust me, I sing in the shower and sometimes when slow dancing or in bed ;) That’s enough.
Do you find it sexy to have someone sing in your ear even if they can’t really sing all that well? I do.
I don’t know much about financial domination, but I would still be wary of anyone I didn’t know wanting to “take control” of my finances. Unless, I suppose, they were my hypothetical accountant or financial adviser. And they did femdom on the side. ;)
“I also don’t accept money for what I do because in my mind that seems to take the control from me and give it to whomever is paying” is a VERY interesting concept!
There are a lot of professional writers, artists, and musicians these days who make their work available for free viewing or listening online to reach a wider audience — and to take control of their work back from the entertainment corporations — among them several friends of mine. I think I’ll pass this quote along to them.
I’ve heard you speak about this a number of times. There are many ways for someone to be compensated for what they do. You obviously enjoy what you do, people love you, they respect you. How many can say that people they know and people they don’t know look to them as a leader, a kind person, a thoughtful, intelligent, and reasonable person, knowledgeable in their field?