I read quite a few blogs written by submissive men. I really respect and admire that they are willing to put their thoughts, desires, and intimate secrets out there for anyone to see (and sometimes for anyone to criticize). I want to preface my remarks by saying this, because even if I disagree with the things some say, it doesn’t mean I don’t respect them or their right to live their life the way they (and their partner) choose.
Often I am really impressed with some men’s sincere desire and commitment to making a happier life for both he and his lady. On occasion I read posts by others that leave me thinking, “Oh my gosh that poor woman. How can she possibly be all he wants her to be?”
Clearly it places a couple in a very difficult situation when the man possesses a strong desire to be in a female led relationship while he is married or in a relationship with woman who is more comfortable with a more conventional role. To say he must proceed with caution is putting it mildly. Hopefully in return she can be convinced to keep an open mind.
There are so many things that go into making this dynamic work that it would be impossible to address them all even in a dozen blog entries. Still, there are a few things I thought I would share simply as food for thought, nothing more. Obviously a man knows his partner far better than a stranger ever could.
With that in mind, I’ll be posting a series of posts on female led relationships that focus on the woman’s point of view. Keep an eye out :) Hopefully I’ll post the first one later on today.
~ Lady Julia
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You are very wise in your thoughts and not at all extreme. I would not be hesitant to show anyone what you write.