Comments on: Beware ;) http://ladyjulia.net/myblog/sexuality/15-beware/ Random Thoughts of a Lifestyle HypnoDomme Sat, 04 Dec 2010 05:00:33 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Lady Julia http://ladyjulia.net/myblog/sexuality/15-beware/comment-page-1/#comment-70 Lady Julia Tue, 11 Nov 2008 23:06:19 +0000 http://ladyjulia.net/myblog/?p=15#comment-70 Whenever I read that quote, I only had one thought - I'd have been jailed or burned at the stake in 1894 :) Whenever I read that quote, I only had one thought – I’d have been jailed or burned at the stake in 1894 :)

]]> By: Free Thinking Writer http://ladyjulia.net/myblog/sexuality/15-beware/comment-page-1/#comment-63 Free Thinking Writer Tue, 11 Nov 2008 16:16:06 +0000 http://ladyjulia.net/myblog/?p=15#comment-63 I hope we've come a long way since those days, but I'm not so sure we have. There are still women out there who think sex is just the price of marriage, that it's a duty to periodically and as infrequently as necessary lay on her back, spread her legs, and wait for it to be over. I don't know who that says more about -- him or her. Luckily, I believe that this is an area in which our overly-sex-focused entertainment industry is helping us out, teaching us there should be higher expectations from both parties. I hope we’ve come a long way since those days, but I’m not so sure we have. There are still women out there who think sex is just the price of marriage, that it’s a duty to periodically and as infrequently as necessary lay on her back, spread her legs, and wait for it to be over.

I don’t know who that says more about — him or her.

Luckily, I believe that this is an area in which our overly-sex-focused entertainment industry is helping us out, teaching us there should be higher expectations from both parties.

]]> By: Lady Julia http://ladyjulia.net/myblog/sexuality/15-beware/comment-page-1/#comment-47 Lady Julia Sun, 09 Nov 2008 16:14:00 +0000 http://ladyjulia.net/myblog/?p=15#comment-47 Nigel, I don't agree with the quote. In fact, I so strongly disagree with it that I thought it funny in a "that's SO absurd" sort of way. Nigel, I don’t agree with the quote. In fact, I so strongly disagree with it that I thought it funny in a “that’s SO absurd” sort of way.

]]> By: nigel http://ladyjulia.net/myblog/sexuality/15-beware/comment-page-1/#comment-46 nigel Sun, 09 Nov 2008 08:04:00 +0000 http://ladyjulia.net/myblog/?p=15#comment-46 I am sorry to be obnoxious Lady Julia but I disagree! It is not about giving and taking. <br/>I believe in sharing. I am sorry to be obnoxious Lady Julia but I disagree! It is not about giving and taking.
I believe in sharing.

]]> By: Arafinte http://ladyjulia.net/myblog/sexuality/15-beware/comment-page-1/#comment-44 Arafinte Sun, 09 Nov 2008 06:39:00 +0000 http://ladyjulia.net/myblog/?p=15#comment-44 What sad advice and what possible sad consequences for both husband and wife should such advice be followed. I guess this Ruth Smythers had never heard of trust, let alone D/s or SSC. Oh, well, it was written 114 years ago. I found it tragic and almost funny that the sentence following the bit you quoted was, “Otherwise what could have been a proper marriage could become an orgy of sexual lust.” To that I reply back through the ages, “And what the heck would be wrong with THAT ?” Corsets can be cool, but Mrs. Smythers’ seemed to be a trifle too tight.<br/><br/>Arafin What sad advice and what possible sad consequences for both husband and wife should such advice be followed. I guess this Ruth Smythers had never heard of trust, let alone D/s or SSC. Oh, well, it was written 114 years ago. I found it tragic and almost funny that the sentence following the bit you quoted was, “Otherwise what could have been a proper marriage could become an orgy of sexual lust.” To that I reply back through the ages, “And what the heck would be wrong with THAT ?” Corsets can be cool, but Mrs. Smythers’ seemed to be a trifle too tight.

Arafin

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