Three posts in one day. Seems I have a bit on my mind :)
I was talking with a friend earlier about my previous post, “The Internet or Sex – Which Will It Be?“. When I remarked that I really had difficulty believing that 39 percent of males ages 18-34 would choose the internet over sex, he reminded me how strongly many people’s sexual lives were impacted by the internet. Clearly the things available online can be a driving force in masturbation fantasies.
After thinking a bit, I wondered how many people felt masturbation was just as good or better than sex. As a general rule, do you? (Yes, of course there are exceptions and many factors to take in consideration. I’m just curious which you’d choose over the other if you had to choose.)
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Mrs. Will does me better than I can do me. There is a part in me that needs to please my Lady during sex. I’ve found my solo efforts not to be as fulfilling.
On a side note, I was thinking today that my own personal touching has become much less in recent years. The change is tied closely with finding your group. I don’t know if it’s because I’m older, Mrs. Will has become more active, or being able to interact with you and others on the subject has satisfied some need in me. It’s probably all of the above.
But back to the question – I pick sex where I can please Mrs. Will over just pleasing myself.
Will
Ditto Mr Will… ‘not as fulfilling’ going solo. I too prescribe to preference of pleasing my partner; she is easily half, if not more, of my joy in sex.
I have learned a huge amount from the web and myself, especially since finding many of the links (like yours) that I mention on my page. And of course, have really ‘gotten excited’ in the process, but… the web is no substitute for what I personally desire.
hmmm, sex with another person is more emotionally satisfying, but with masturbation I know exactly how to do it and I am patient enough that I generally release more intensely. Some might say I need to communicate better with my partner, but then no matter what, I can wait just as long as I need to, and make it happen at just the right moment. So, sex is definitely more fulfilling emotionally for me, but if I really want to get off, most of the time masturbation is better for the pure intensity of the release.
J
It depends upon my partner. I’ve had some pretty bad sex in the past that I would have traded for 10 minutes alone.
Sex
— Felix
It depends entirely upon who is doing the masturbating. :)
Arafin
Oh sucks! I don’t consider masturbation sex unless that is all you have ever had in your life. This “interntet” thingie, I could drop it in a second for just a look or a sniff at a woman of character.
Evolution will weed out the internet geeks, and allow the knuckle-draggers to inherit the future. I will go with lengthening my arms as soon as I get off this computer.
Sex. Definitely sex.
By the way… I love this picture. Following the soft curves of a woman’s legs from her hips to the tips of her toes is such an erotic journey.
For the intensity of orgasm then masturbation. For the “love” feelings or “intimacy” feelings as priority instead of orgasm being important then sex.
Sex, without question. Of course, sex also involves Boy Toy doing me orally or manually, which is so much hotter than doing it myself. I practically never masturbate, that’s how little interest I have in it :P
I think far fewer men get sex than want it. That’s why the internet has been a godsend for its unlimited porn, free phone sex and cybersex. I think many more women don’t want sex. It isn’t as important to a lot of women.
The two are different, very different.
Making love is so much more multi-dimensional, much more involving, much more satisfying overall. I glow afterward. I have hallucinogenic dreams (really!). And cuddling with her makes it something that lasts all night.
On the other hand: masturbation is something I can do when I want, as often as I like, without her having to be in the mood, without her being present. It is focused, quick, and intense altered state, that feels wonderful, and usually leaves me better able to concentrate.
If I have a choice, there is no question — making love with her trumps everything. But often I don’t have that choice, so I pleassure myself.